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WHY SELF LOVE?

Hello peeps, how have you been, taking care of yourselves? Hope everyone’s happy and smiling, now just in case if you are not, then today here’s from my side:  loads and loads of love and warm hugs, because each one needs hugs of love. 

Now be brutal honest. Have you ever felt fully and deeply loved by yourself? Let’s talk something about self love. This is something which is legit close and had been meandering within my heart lately. What you understand by self love might be different from mine. In my perception, it’s all about being confident about who you are, pampering protecting as well as taking care of your own self, understanding the physiological and emotional needs and listening to our own hearts without the need of consent and approval of others, along with patting yourself on the back on achieving whatever you have. You start feeling much bolder, assertive as well as optimistic.


 Trust me, no one is perfect and you can’t expect yourselves to be. It’s all the imperfections within you that make you perfect.

No doubt you frequently might feel discontented with your life but comparing yourself to someone else would only make you feel unsatisfactory about yourselves. Each person is unique and is born with their individual personalities and differences. Make a list of what your strengths and weaknesses are, and work upon them. Brush aside all your negative thoughts without being suppressed by them; come join to the brighter side while embracing your dark sides. Steer up your feet back to the path and along this path you gonna discover the many offerings and abilities that you were born with. Learn to treat yourself with love, respect and everything in this world which would only help you create space for yourself to be more and more authentic, real and bona fide.

I, myself have gone through a hell lot of pessimistic opinions and statements since my childhood and all my teenage life.  The people that body shames people for being fat, poke fun at people for being skinny too. Hearing to the same statements has become so monotonous in life, that now I have started looking at it in a legit positive manner as well as an appraisal. I realized that these scales couldn’t and never can compute my endowments and value.

                           
Honestly all the love that you need to be much more contented in life lies within yourself already in a much greater level. Of course you are worthy of the love from your surroundings and the people around you, but most importantly it’s you and only you who can treat themselves better than anyone.  Self love isn’t easy at all, you need to practice daily in order to master it, it might take a lifetime but eventually you would feel great and worth, making you feel better and mentally healthy.               

Back to my question: Would you love yourself even harder?

 DO CHECK THIS OUT AND LEMME KNOW.

 

DO YOU BELIEVE IN THE NOTION OF SELF LOVE?
COMPLETELY
NOT ACTUALLY
Created by PRANJAL
Does self love lead to over confidence?
YES
NO
Created by PRANJAL

Comments

  1. Ishita SarafOctober 27, 2020 at 8:14 PM

    Another one of the most important topic which is very much spoken about but rarely applied on our personal lives.... Hope that by reading this article people including me do understand the importance of self love ❤

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  2. Ajay JainOctober 27, 2020 at 9:32 PM

    Now this is what everyone was waiting from you, I think and it has addressed the problem

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  3. Manish patelOctober 27, 2020 at 10:40 PM

    I think that self love is good but i also think that it makes a person over confident.....😅😶

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  4. Aman SinghOctober 27, 2020 at 10:41 PM

    Each and every word spoken is true and if people follow this, it will have a positive impact which will reflect in their overall behaviour 💯😊

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  5. Harsh KejriwalOctober 27, 2020 at 10:46 PM

    Now a days when depression, suppression and aggression are paving their ways, self love is the best help one could provide yourselves from within.
    I truly agree your conception, for me the topic of self love is mostly known but ignored.
    This will back you in times when others aren't and will lead you to a substantive better place.
    Hereby a great content from your side nd in return loads of love and support from the viewers

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  6. Siddharth TiwariOctober 28, 2020 at 8:56 AM

    It deeply touched my heart because I have also faced the same situation of body shaming... It's awesome pranjal 💕 ...

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  7. AnonymousOctober 28, 2020 at 3:25 PM

    This is a legit important topic, I am glad you talked about it, this was very much needed at this point of time.

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  8. Khushi sunderkaOctober 30, 2020 at 2:58 PM

    Yeah ...absolutely correct...

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  9. AnonymousOctober 30, 2020 at 3:31 PM

    Well written yaa!!

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  10. ShubhamOctober 30, 2020 at 7:21 PM

    ❤️❤️

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  11. Swastika SarkarOctober 30, 2020 at 7:36 PM

    Such a great message 💕 Loved reading it!

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  12. Madhav MohtaOctober 30, 2020 at 9:45 PM

    Great content!💯
    Please write something about perspective and choices na..

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  13. UnknownOctober 30, 2020 at 10:00 PM

    I think that self love is good as a basic human necessity as a moral flaw but I also think that it makes a person over confident & selfishness. 😀

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  14. AgniOctober 31, 2020 at 9:19 PM

    Another one of life's important lessons I've learned today and you explained it so well throughout and made me care more about myself and enjoy life as it is so I really want to thank you for believing and support all of us through your blogs😊😊

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  15. toyes singhDecember 3, 2020 at 5:32 PM

    self love is best untill unless it dont harms someone in intoxication of self love dont me someone life toxic it must be included 🤣🤣becauss i know you very well

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  16. Kishan GoelJune 15, 2023 at 10:57 AM

    I always see my life as half glass empty like even ik many things, I believe I'm yet to learn and yearn myself. But I cherish myself at every golden spots, that's wht makes me happy 😁.

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  17. AnonymousDecember 25, 2025 at 9:52 PM

    Self love is the best gift one can have ~b**ky

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